Butters Life Blog
Why I Don’t Recommend Silicone Lube for Anal Se...
But here’s the thing—what’s perfect for one type of play can be an absolute headache (and sometimes a health risk) for another.
Why I Don’t Recommend Silicone Lube for Anal Se...
But here’s the thing—what’s perfect for one type of play can be an absolute headache (and sometimes a health risk) for another.
What to Do with Your Righteous Fury When It Fee...
So now what? Maybe you’re tired of taking to the streets. Maybe you never were the marching type. I’m not. But that doesn’t mean you can’t do something. You can....
What to Do with Your Righteous Fury When It Fee...
So now what? Maybe you’re tired of taking to the streets. Maybe you never were the marching type. I’m not. But that doesn’t mean you can’t do something. You can....
It’s Your Life: Get the Tattoo, Quit the Job, D...
If you’ve been waiting for permission to live how you actually want to live, here it is. Not from your mom. Not from your boss. From the grown-up version of...
It’s Your Life: Get the Tattoo, Quit the Job, D...
If you’ve been waiting for permission to live how you actually want to live, here it is. Not from your mom. Not from your boss. From the grown-up version of...
Start Some Shit: 7 Science-Backed Ways to Build...
The best way to be chosen is to be seen. Go where people are. Show up as yourself. And if there’s no space for you? Build one. You’re not looking...
Start Some Shit: 7 Science-Backed Ways to Build...
The best way to be chosen is to be seen. Go where people are. Show up as yourself. And if there’s no space for you? Build one. You’re not looking...
Entering the Freakshow: How to Access Kinkier, ...
What if I’m not looking for quiet dinners and 2.5 kids? What if I want a collar instead of a ring? What if I want open love, strange rituals, power...
Entering the Freakshow: How to Access Kinkier, ...
What if I’m not looking for quiet dinners and 2.5 kids? What if I want a collar instead of a ring? What if I want open love, strange rituals, power...
Therapy Isn’t for Most Men: The Gender Canyon i...
If you’re a man who’s felt like therapy didn’t help, like nothing “works,” like you’re losing the battle in silence—it’s not because you’re broken.
Therapy Isn’t for Most Men: The Gender Canyon i...
If you’re a man who’s felt like therapy didn’t help, like nothing “works,” like you’re losing the battle in silence—it’s not because you’re broken.