Butters Life Blog

I Need to Start Over. I Don't Want to Run Away.
Leaving is easy. Staying takes courage. If you’re constantly running, ask yourself: Am I actually escaping, or just postponing the work? So before you pack your bags and call it...
I Need to Start Over. I Don't Want to Run Away.
Leaving is easy. Staying takes courage. If you’re constantly running, ask yourself: Am I actually escaping, or just postponing the work? So before you pack your bags and call it...

Burn It Down and Begin Again: The Case for Star...
Starting over isn’t about losing. It’s about choosing. Choosing yourself. Choosing your happiness. Choosing a life that actually fits.
Burn It Down and Begin Again: The Case for Star...
Starting over isn’t about losing. It’s about choosing. Choosing yourself. Choosing your happiness. Choosing a life that actually fits.

What Are You Waiting For?
Maybe you’re thinking, 'But I should have done this ten years ago. I should have started when I was younger.' Guess what? You didn’t. And in ten more years, you’ll...
What Are You Waiting For?
Maybe you’re thinking, 'But I should have done this ten years ago. I should have started when I was younger.' Guess what? You didn’t. And in ten more years, you’ll...

Maybe You Should Leave: How to Tell When It's T...
Walking away isn’t failure. It’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a brave decision to find the places and people who see your worth without needing you to prove it....
Maybe You Should Leave: How to Tell When It's T...
Walking away isn’t failure. It’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a brave decision to find the places and people who see your worth without needing you to prove it....

Fight, Flight, or Ghost: How to Overcome Avoida...
By choosing to stay present—even when it’s uncomfortable—you’re not just avoiding loneliness. You’re building bridges where walls might have gone up, and you’re clarifying who deserves a place on the...
Fight, Flight, or Ghost: How to Overcome Avoida...
By choosing to stay present—even when it’s uncomfortable—you’re not just avoiding loneliness. You’re building bridges where walls might have gone up, and you’re clarifying who deserves a place on the...

The Sexy Power of Need: Why Making Space for Ot...
When you make it clear where someone is needed, it fosters a sense of belonging. It builds an emotional ecosystem where both of you feel nurtured. It’s not just about...
The Sexy Power of Need: Why Making Space for Ot...
When you make it clear where someone is needed, it fosters a sense of belonging. It builds an emotional ecosystem where both of you feel nurtured. It’s not just about...