Butters Life Blog

50 Small Victories That Can Transform Your Outl...
When life feels heavy, unchangeable, or just plain blah, it’s not always a massive win that turns the tide. Often, it's the tiny triumphs—those manageable, daily victories—that shift your perspective...
50 Small Victories That Can Transform Your Outl...
When life feels heavy, unchangeable, or just plain blah, it’s not always a massive win that turns the tide. Often, it's the tiny triumphs—those manageable, daily victories—that shift your perspective...

Radical Optimism: No One’s Coming. So Go Get It...
In the end, optimism isn't naive; it’s resilient. It’s understanding clearly that while no one else might save you, you absolutely can—and must—save yourself. Your happiness is worth every ounce...
Radical Optimism: No One’s Coming. So Go Get It...
In the end, optimism isn't naive; it’s resilient. It’s understanding clearly that while no one else might save you, you absolutely can—and must—save yourself. Your happiness is worth every ounce...

Let the Past Rot: Regret Makes Great Fertilizer
A practical guide to composting your emotional shit and blooming into who you’re supposed to be. The power is yours.
Let the Past Rot: Regret Makes Great Fertilizer
A practical guide to composting your emotional shit and blooming into who you’re supposed to be. The power is yours.

Show Me Love: The Importance of Transactional R...
Expecting balance doesn’t make you selfish. It makes you self-respecting.
Show Me Love: The Importance of Transactional R...
Expecting balance doesn’t make you selfish. It makes you self-respecting.

Why Do You Keep Giving to People Who Don’t Give...
Stop giving to people who don’t give a shit—about themselves, about you, or about anything beyond their own comfort. They’re not stuck because life is unfair. They’re stuck because they...
Why Do You Keep Giving to People Who Don’t Give...
Stop giving to people who don’t give a shit—about themselves, about you, or about anything beyond their own comfort. They’re not stuck because life is unfair. They’re stuck because they...

Why You Can’t Move Forward (And How to Fix It).
Pride will keep you locked inside your own head, pretending you have control when really, you’re stuck. Overwhelm thrives in silence and inaction. Break both, and you break its hold...
Why You Can’t Move Forward (And How to Fix It).
Pride will keep you locked inside your own head, pretending you have control when really, you’re stuck. Overwhelm thrives in silence and inaction. Break both, and you break its hold...