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Spotting Your Headliner: Getting Clear on What ...
You already survived the minefield. You dodged the push-pullers, the emotionally unready, the validation tourists, the trauma messengers, and all their familiar cousins. Part 1 was about pattern recognition. Now,...
Spotting Your Headliner: Getting Clear on What ...
You already survived the minefield. You dodged the push-pullers, the emotionally unready, the validation tourists, the trauma messengers, and all their familiar cousins. Part 1 was about pattern recognition. Now,...

How to Avoid the Sideshow Acts in the Circus of...
Modern online dating is a circus. Not in the fun, cotton-candy-and-dancing-elephants kind of way. More like a chaotic sideshow: a rotating stage of clowns, illusionists, fire-eaters, and tightrope walkers with...
How to Avoid the Sideshow Acts in the Circus of...
Modern online dating is a circus. Not in the fun, cotton-candy-and-dancing-elephants kind of way. More like a chaotic sideshow: a rotating stage of clowns, illusionists, fire-eaters, and tightrope walkers with...

Coming Home to Yourself (Even If It’s Through Y...
We inherit more than just genetics. We inherit coping mechanisms. Phrases. Wounds. Gifts. And in the absence of reflection, we can mistake those inheritances for destiny. But they’re not. They’re...
Coming Home to Yourself (Even If It’s Through Y...
We inherit more than just genetics. We inherit coping mechanisms. Phrases. Wounds. Gifts. And in the absence of reflection, we can mistake those inheritances for destiny. But they’re not. They’re...

PRIVATE PARTS: Why Your Sex Life Deserves Priva...
Your sex life doesn’t need a platform. It needs a place.
PRIVATE PARTS: Why Your Sex Life Deserves Priva...
Your sex life doesn’t need a platform. It needs a place.

The Rebellion of Patience: Holding Out for What...
So if you're waiting on love, healing, clarity, or your next chapter—be patient on purpose. You're not stuck. You're building strength.
The Rebellion of Patience: Holding Out for What...
So if you're waiting on love, healing, clarity, or your next chapter—be patient on purpose. You're not stuck. You're building strength.

The Art of Saying No: Dignity, Discernment, and...
We all know we should say no more often—but actually doing it? That’s a whole different beast.
The Art of Saying No: Dignity, Discernment, and...
We all know we should say no more often—but actually doing it? That’s a whole different beast.