Butters Life Blog

Spice It Up: Rediscovering Intimacy in the Golden Years

Spice It Up: Rediscovering Intimacy in the Gold...

You’ve heard it before: “Aging is just a number.” But when you’re trying to get busy, and your knees start sounding like a bowl of Rice Krispies, it sure doesn’t feel like...

Spice It Up: Rediscovering Intimacy in the Gold...

You’ve heard it before: “Aging is just a number.” But when you’re trying to get busy, and your knees start sounding like a bowl of Rice Krispies, it sure doesn’t feel like...

Lubrication Station: Keeping Pleasure Slick and Smooth as We Age

Lubrication Station: Keeping Pleasure Slick and...

Let’s talk about one of the sex world’s most underappreciated MVPs: lube. Now, I know what you’re thinking—“Lube? Really?” Yes, really. Trust me, when it comes to keeping things smooth,...

Lubrication Station: Keeping Pleasure Slick and...

Let’s talk about one of the sex world’s most underappreciated MVPs: lube. Now, I know what you’re thinking—“Lube? Really?” Yes, really. Trust me, when it comes to keeping things smooth,...

Aging Like Fine Wine: How Sex Gets Better with Age

Aging Like Fine Wine: How Sex Gets Better with Age

You’ve probably heard it before—somewhere along the line, people decided that after a certain age, sex just...stops. Like some mysterious switch flips, and suddenly, you’re more interested in knitting than...

Aging Like Fine Wine: How Sex Gets Better with Age

You’ve probably heard it before—somewhere along the line, people decided that after a certain age, sex just...stops. Like some mysterious switch flips, and suddenly, you’re more interested in knitting than...

Silver Foxes & Sass: Navigating Sex and Aging as Gay Men

Silver Foxes & Sass: Navigating Sex and Aging a...

There’s this weird, unspoken myth that once you hit a certain age, sex becomes a thing of the past. As if once you blow out your 50th birthday candles, your...

Silver Foxes & Sass: Navigating Sex and Aging a...

There’s this weird, unspoken myth that once you hit a certain age, sex becomes a thing of the past. As if once you blow out your 50th birthday candles, your...

Understanding Love Bombing, New Relationship Energy, and Manipulative Affection: Navigating Early Relationship Dynamics for Long-Term Passion

Understanding Love Bombing, New Relationship En...

Love bombing, new relationship energy, and general manipulative affection are three distinct aspects of relationships that often get confused or misunderstood. To navigate relationships healthily, it is essential to understand...

Understanding Love Bombing, New Relationship En...

Love bombing, new relationship energy, and general manipulative affection are three distinct aspects of relationships that often get confused or misunderstood. To navigate relationships healthily, it is essential to understand...

Why Bullies Bully (And How to Stop Being One)

Why Bullies Bully (And How to Stop Being One)

Let’s cut to the chase: if you're here, you’ve probably had a moment of introspection (or maybe a harsh wake-up call) and thought, “Am I kind of a jerk?” The...

Why Bullies Bully (And How to Stop Being One)

Let’s cut to the chase: if you're here, you’ve probably had a moment of introspection (or maybe a harsh wake-up call) and thought, “Am I kind of a jerk?” The...