Masturbation is fucking awesome. This is an inalienable truth. Taking pleasure into your own hands is just so punk and powerful. So, let’s make masturbation even more awesome with these 10 tips!
#10 Release your fear of addiction
There’s a pervasive fear masturbation and porn addiction in our incredibly puritanical culture. For the love of all that is horny, please let it fuck go! It’s ok to masturbate whenever you feel like it, within social mores obvi. It’s ok to prefer solo or group masturbation over partnered or penetrative sex. As long as it’s not actively ruining your life, you’re good. You’re more likely to ruin your life with shame and fear than pleasure and joy.
Edging is taking yourself to the edge of orgasm and then pulling back. You’ll often experience that pre-orgasmic bliss over and over and before experiencing a bigger/more powerful orgasm. This works for all bodies but is typically done by folks who are the one nut and done kind. It’s a great way to extend the pleasure for an afternoon or week. Yes, there’s some people who go that far and farther with it. But you’ll probably find it difficult to last the night.
#8 Try it with others
Mutual Masturbation is one of the most overlooked forms of sexual expression. Whether you’re doing it separately in the same room or pleasuring one another, it’s incredibly fun. There’s very little stress; it’s inclusive of size, shapes, and ability; plus, you don’t have to impress anyone with your performance. It’s all about experiencing pleasure in a way that penetrative sex tends not to be. Plus, there’s private masturbation clubs all over the planet and they’re super welcoming – it’s all about bonding and pleasure.
#7 Vary your technique
Each time you masturbate, you teach your body how to get off. When you only spank it one way for a long time, you’ll find it hard to cum from coupled sex or even a change in position. If you vary your technique, you’ll be able to add some variety to your masturbation and some versatility your genital’s ability to get off.
I know it sounds odd because if you don’t breathe you die. but do you pay attention to your breathing? Try to inhale and exhale deeply – in a controlled way. it helps your body relax and gain a sense of calm pleasure. A deep breath right at climax will sometimes give you a burst of pleasure.
#5 Seduce Yourself/Set the scene
You may be alone when you masturbate but that doesn’t mean you can’t take the time to turn yourself on. Even masturbation is better with a bit of foreplay. Play the music that gets you in the mood. Wear what makes you feel comfortable, even if it’s nothing at all. Surround yourself with what makes you feel calm or sexy. Set the mood. The little things help.
#4 Use your whole body
If you want to masturbate, you can simply stimulate your genitals and repeat until you’re satisfied. If you want to get the most out of your alone time, you’re going to need to get exploring. Your body loves to be touched and you have two hands that are perfect for it. Rub your neck, pinch your nipples, caress your stomach, lick your fingertips, spank yourself, use a butt plug or vibe, etc. I think you’ll find the extra stimulation quite enjoyable.
#3 Express Yourself!
As teens masturbating in our bedrooms, we had to be silent, so mum, dad or annoying siblings didn’t burst in and ruin our fun. Unfortunately, our ninja like stealth was inhibiting our pleasure. Now that we’re all grown up and – hopefully – living on our own, we can moan and squeal with delight and pleasure from every mountaintop. Lavish in it.
Talking dirty, moaning, screaming, squealing, cursing or even just vocalizing anything you want will help you to release the tension and energy building up inside.
#2 Go-Go Gadget Dildo!
Our hands are amazing tools that can do amazing things to our bodies, but your arm is only so long, and your hand is only so strong. Why not take a cue from Inspector Gadget and pull out a gadget or two to get the job done? Vibrators, dildos, Fleshlights, Tengas, nipple clips, butt plugs, prostate stimulators, ball stretchers, cock rings, weed, ice cubes and textured textiles can all increase the pleasure of your masturbation!
#1 Stimulate Your Mind!
The mind is our biggest and most important sex organ. This means that in every sex act we must stimulate our brains. The most obvious way is to look at porn, magazines, and pictures. You can also listen to audio of sex or erotic audiobooks; watch sports like wrestling, swimming, volleyball, etc.; talking yourself through different fantasies and explore them in your brain.