Blow jobs are no easy feat. And in part 2 of the Head Game Doctorate Series were gonna bust some myths, set some ground rules and make sure you’re on the right path to your degree in sucking D!

1. The sack is sacred not secondary

For most men, testicular stimulation is key to ensuring he gets over the edge. Just like women, men will need repeated specific motion and pressure as well as direct focus on them to blast off like Team Rocket. We will go more into that in the foreplay section.

2. Depth is not always required

Ensuring the top 2-3 inches of penis and testicles are stimulated will usually provide the exact kind of sensation he needs.

3. Breathe through your nose

Even when you’re not focusing on depth, it can be a natural reflex to stop breathing. But this is not a good idea for obvious reasons. If it’s not obvious, Instead, maintain calm, steady breathing through your nose. This keeps your airflow consistent, which helps prevent gagging and maintains your focus on the rhythm. Take breaks to swallow: Swallowing naturally resets your breath and allows you to pace yourself. Use these moments to lick or kiss the balls before diving back in.

4. The penis is equivalent to the clitoris.

Too much direct stimulation too soon or for too long can be overwhelming. Vary your pleasure points and when in doubt lick his balls. That’s just a general rule for life, if you’re ever uncertain about what you should be doing, lick his balls. It’s always the correct answer.

5.  Start slow, build tempo:

Just like warming up on an instrument, begin with slow, deliberate movements. Gently stroke the shaft with your hand while teasing the head with your lips and tongue. Take your time, letting him settle into the sensations before picking up the pace.

6. Wetness & Teeth 

Wetness is highly subjective. Some men love lots of saliva, while others prefer a drier experience. Ask him what he likes, and if you need more moisture, drink some water beforehand. You can also pull your tongue back in your mouth to stimulate your salivary glands. Mucus is your friend—it’s slipperier and lasts longer than saliva. Teeth are persona non grata unless he asks: Use your upper lip to pad your top teeth and your tongue to pad your lower teeth. This will take muscle memory to perfect. As will how to use your teeth, if he does want that. Still, you should know that

7. Communication. 

Offer some sloppy, when it crosses your mind. Desire is the quickest way to a man’s cock. It’s also psychologically reaffirming for both of you. He’s gonna feel joy and eagerness followed by calm. You feel sexy, powerful, and get him out of your way while he naps.